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SAYING FIRST HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO DAD After 21 Years, Emotional – Beauty Queen

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Jasmin

Jasmin Paul is beautiful. She is brilliant. And in testament to her beauty, she is the current Miss Numan, that sprawling town of the Bachama, a warrior tribe that was never conquered in all of her history, hence it has most befittingly remained the protective gateway city, so to speak, to Adamawa, from Gombe axis.

Jasmin is wearing the coveted crown after beating a bevy of other beautiful young ladies to the title. At 21 she is a charming second-year student of medicine in the University of Jos. However, her charm and effervescence were always dampened by one thing, she never met her father. All these whiles, she never knew who he was as her mother closely and protectively guarded it from her until such a time all the muddled-up issues pertaining to her paternity were cleared up.

Jasmin

 He parents had met in Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria where they were both students and had related until about 21 years ago they went their separate ways on completing their studies. Thereafter, her mother, Pwavi, realized she was on the way. By the time she was born, they had lost all contacts. Then, telephony had not penetrated as it is today as there was no GSM yet. Her father, John, was all the while unaware of her existence having long relocated and settled in Lagos with a new family. Jasmin was made to believe another man, an acquaintance of the family, was her father. When the man eventually died, her mother was compelled to tell her the truth. Then John had become untraceable.

Jasmin was growing up into a beautiful but very unhappy young woman who occasionally slipped into moody spells that led to bouts of rebellion. Her mother intensified her secret search. Fortuitously, they reconnected through her mother’s younger brother who had met and befriended John in Abuja where he had later relocated, unknown to both something beyond the occasional drinks they shared as they hung out in the evenings, had connected them. Resemblances each saw on the other’s face roused their gnawing curiosity.

Daddy and Daughter

While to John his friend uncannily resembled this lady, one Pwavi, he had met and briefly befriended in Jos as a young graduate, his friend on the other hand never stopped marveling at the striking facial features his friend shared with his beautiful niece back home, Jasmin. Then they just voiced this out one day, only to realize their hunches were no mere curiosities but realities that were set to resolve in the most dramatic of ways.

When Pwavi finally reached John with the news of the baby, understandably, he received it with some shock and a tinge of little misgivings. He cautiously offered to accept paternity only after a positive DNA test. Meanwhile, Pwavi busied herself with the immediate task of raising her daughter, ensuring she lacked nothing she deserved and needed to grow into a happy and well-behaved child.

Jasmin

Jasmin however increasingly felt uncomfortable and secretly intensified her quest to track down her father. She neither knew his name nor what he ever looked like. Then an idea struck her. She would go to her mother’s Facebook wall and start looking at all of her male friends. She did this for years. Then somehow, there was a little improvement in communication between the two, John and Pwavi, as they became friends and followed each other on Facebook, after Pwavi had herself searched him out and requested.

“The day I saw his picture on my mother’s Facebook wall, I immediately knew I was looking at my father. My heart nearly jumped out of my chest in over excitement. I sent him a friend’s request and for six anxious months I watched it every day. He did not respond. Then one day after thinking hard about it, I sent him a message, ‘daddy hi’, and he immediately replied ‘I am fine my daughter’. I asked him how he knew I was his daughter, then he said he knew, just the way I also knew he was my father. Feelings! Blood! We mutually felt our connection.”

Being crowned Miss Numan 2020

Then he asked for her number and they started talking. When she told her mother she had found her father, she was surprised and also relieved. John, while speaking to Words and Shots said all the DNA test he needed was her picture. She not only looked like him she looked like his other two younger teenage daughters.

The long phone conversations did so much to assuage her feelings and but she was not prepared for what happed one beautiful afternoon, the day the doors of the office where she did her vacation job slid open and some people walked in. They had pretended to be clients and as she very courteously received them, she suddenly got to her father. She immediately froze.

Pwavi and John

Shock was an understatement. As she flew into his arms, she broke down in tears and cried her heart out, in grief for those shoulders she had not had to lean on in the 21 years of her life, and then in relief it was all over, as he would be there for her, for the rest of their lives.

So, earlier today, as she watched the clock and it struck 12 midnight, she dialed his number. He picked and she whispered, the first person to call him, and for the first time in her life, “Happy birthday daddy!”

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4 Comments

4 Comments

  1. Emma Osita

    July 14, 2021 at 12:41 pm

    The girl is really beautiful.

  2. Emeka Uk

    July 14, 2021 at 5:31 pm

    What a wonderful story this is. And how lucky are they? Her mother deserves all the accolades for lovingly raising such a beauty with all the weight of secrecy and the associated guilt of keeping it from the other man. Until the DNA technology becomes available on the shelf so to speak, many fathers will remain impostors. Congratulations Jasmine

  3. _great_cee

    July 19, 2021 at 8:55 am

    An amazing story

  4. Janet Chizoba

    July 19, 2021 at 11:57 am

    Very interesting story, couldn’t drop my phone until I was done reading through…lol

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WHY THE CATHOLIC CHURCH IS THE WORLD’S STRONGEST AND MOST ORGANIZED

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The Catholic Church is the strongest and most organized institution in the world to date.

The structure of the church is such that no human person, including the Pope, is bigger than the Church.

The church has survived for more than 2,000 years now.

The church spends so much on the education of its priests. The priestly formation is a very thorough and rigorous program. To be a priest, you must at least have a bachelor in philosophy and theology. Some formations incorporate psychology, human development, spirituality, and other secular courses.

The record-keeping of the church is top-notch. The original manuscript of all the writings of the early disciples and the Scriptures are all in the possession of the church, properly kept.

If you attend weekly masses for two years, you are likely to have read the entire bible. The scriptural readings taken at mass in your village are the same that was read everywhere in the world that day.

There is order, there is discipline; this is why you can confidently trust the church.

The strength of the Catholic Church is the reason why Christianity will continue to flourish. . . And of course, that strength is a testament to the fact that the Catholic Church was not founded by any human person.

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ACTOR AL PACINO 83 EXPECTING BABY FROM GIRLFRIEND 29

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At 83 years, one of the greatest actors on earth, Al Pacino is expecting a child with girlfriend Noor Alfallah who is 29 years (54 years younger) .

When the child is born, Pacino, at age 83, will be one of the oldest fathers on record.

Pacino has three children previously with other women.

Just fancy that!

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OKWU OTO EKENE EZE: INTERNET SET ON FIRE AS PETE EDECHIE ‘CASUALLY’ SHAKES OONI OF IFE, STANDING

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Ooni and Edochie

Netizens on the micro-blogging website, Instagram, have disagreed over the viral video showing the moment the Oni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi Enitan, was exchanging greetings with veteran Nollywood actors, Pete Edochie and Kanayo O. Kanayo.

In the video shared by Kanayo and Ooni on their verified Instagram handles, the actors had walked into the venue of Elizabeth Jack Rich’s 40th birthday party and they approached Ooni’s table to exchange pleasantries with him.

The duo delighted to see Ooni extended handshakes simultaneously and ended with the traditional and popular Igbo backhand handshakes.

Kanayo had captioned it, “Last night was awesome @peteedochie @babarex0 @chidimokeme and the very outstanding His Royal Majesty, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi Enitan, Ooni of Ife.

The video posted on Wednesday had amassed over 20,000 likes and 1,141 comments on Kanayo’s page.

Meanwhile, dissatisfied with the action, some netizens disagreed have tagged it a mere ‘woke act’ while others believed it to be a normal thing among high-profile individuals.

A user, Maxwell said, “The blame is on the Ooni of Ife for going to that kind of place and for also accepting a handshake from people. I’m not against the Nollywood stars but they are supposed to bow before the stool of the king of Ife. if it was the former Ooni of Ife who could try this and even give him a handshake?”

Another user, Yinka Poyigi, said, “I visited different palaces in the east during the course or a project I was working on, and each time I want to greet the Igwe, I will ask to prostrate like an Omoluabi. Surprisingly, the Igwes always decline because it is not their tradition. The chiefs will gently ask me to stand up and greet, introduce myself and sit down.

“What a culture shock! But that’s their tradition, so before you walk with your heads instead of your legs, ask yourself certain questions. 1. Was Ooni in his palace sitting on his stool when this happened? 2. Are the people in question from the same culture? 3. Is Idobale (Porstrate) always a sign of genuine respect? 4. Is Ooni a king of the two veteran Actors? 5. Was this event in Ife? I understand that Ooni is a king to some kings in Yoruba land and even a recognised first-class king in Yoruba land and if I meet him anywhere…my chest will be on the floor.

“I don’t expect my Ibo brothers to do the same except when in his palace. When we travel around and experience different cultures, our exposure and ways of thinking will change,” he added.

Another user, Iamflappys, muttered, “If you don’t respect yourself, no one will. If the real and former king is on the seat, this nonsense will not happen. I respect the work and talent of the legend but if the king starts respecting the throne and acts like a king, this madness will not happen. If anything remove your cap.

In his opinion, a user, Noel Enomheonse, opined, “It looks like this king doesn’t know what his culture expects of him. I’m still thinking of that man in Nigeria who shake hands with the great Oba of Benin in that manner. Even the president and other world leaders bow before him. Sorry to say! Pete Edochie just disrespected the king.”

However, a user, Ugezujugezu, saw nothing wrong with the action, he even commended Edochie saying, “When you hear OKWU OTO EKENE EZE…….. now you understand it.”

Another user, Lincedochie said it is a gathering of elites.

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